Conflict Management

Conflict management
Conflict management for win-win solutions
Chapter 6
p.9
Conflict makes me nervous! How do I thrive on it, especially in the business environment?
The main aim of managing conflict is to ensure that a Win-Win solution is reached through mutual cooperative and assertive behavior, where the value on the table for both parties is maximized and they get more than they contributed in terms of effort, risk and cost.
Forcing (Win-Lose)
The stronger sister takes the orange – grabbing it from the hand of the other, or possibly using some threat.
Assertive but uncooperative.
Avoiding (Lose-Lose)
Both sisters leave the orange rotting on the table. For one to claim it would raise conflict with the other.
Unassertive and uncooperative.
Soothing or Yielding (Lose-Win)
One sister gives in to the other.
Unassertive but cooperative.
Compromise (Win-Lose)
A compromise solution would be for each sister
to take half the orange.
Problem solving (Win-Win)
A problem solving solution would be to discuss why the other wants the orange. (One sister wanted the skin to make a cake, the other wanted the inside to make juice).
Assertive and cooperative.
Often people deal with conflict in ways which do not result in maximum gain for all parties involved and prohibit reaching Win-Win solutions.
Do you recognize any of the following behaviours in the “Tale of the Two Sisters and the Orange”?
How can I enhance my ability to solve problems and manage conflict?
Why don’t you explore the Issue Resolution Model further?
Conflict in an organization is not necessarily unhealthy if.
The essence lies in how you manage “letting it out…

Conflict management for win-win solutions

Chapter 6 p.9

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I Ask

Conflict makes me nervous! How do I thrive on it, especially in the business environment?

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I Answer

The main aim of managing conflict is to ensure that a Win-Win solution is reached through mutual cooperative and assertive behavior, where the value on the table for both parties is maximized and they get more than they contributed in terms of effort, risk and cost.

Often people deal with conflict in ways which do not result in maximum gain for all parties involved and prohibit reaching Win-Win solutions.

Do you recognize any of the following behaviours in the “Tale of the Two Sisters and the Orange”?

Forcing (Win-Lose)

The stronger sister takes the orange – grabbing it from the hand of the other, or possibly using some threat.

Assertive but uncooperative.

Avoiding (Lose-Lose)

Both sisters leave the orange rotting on the table. For one to claim it would raise conflict with the other.

Unassertive and uncooperative.

Soothing or Yielding (Lose-Win)

One sister gives in to the other.

Unassertive but cooperative.

Compromise (Win-Lose)

A compromise solution would be for each sister to take half the orange.

Problem solving (Win-Win)

A problem solving solution would be to discuss why the other wants the orange. (One sister wanted the skin to make a cake, the other wanted the inside to make juice).

Assertive and cooperative.

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I Ask

How can I enhance my ability to solve problems and manage conflict?

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I Answer

Why don’t you explore the Issue Resolution Model further?

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I Advise

Conflict in an organization is not necessarily unhealthy.

The essence lies in how you manage to let it out…

Effective team skills
Equip a team with effective team skills for maximum contribution
Chapter 6 p.1
You have often referred to Teams and Team Members.
What must I do to become an effective team member?
A team is composed of a number of individuals
working towards a common goal.
In the life of any team certain needs or problems crop up from
time to time. Sometimes a need for creativity arises;
issues arise that need to be resolved within the team;
different interests or points of view have to be reconciled to ensure maximum gain.
Equipping each team member with effective Team Skills will ensure maximum contribution by each member to the team process and ensure that the team adds maximum value to the customer and other stakeholders … And ultimately adds value to themselves.
Once again we present a MIND MAP to guide us on a journey through the most important principles which effective team members should master.
Remember however that an understanding of all the other skills described in this book are essential for the effective operation of teams.
Effective team skills:
The Issue Resolution model
The Six Thinking Hats
Win-Win Negotiation for maximum joint gain
Common problems with meetings
Conflict management
Creative and objective problem solving
Decision making model

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team player skills

Effective Team Player Skills

Equip team members with effective team player skills for maximum contribution

(See also: Seven habits of highly successful people)

Effective team skills

This info sheet work in a question and answer fashion. First we ask the most common question on team player skills and then provide answers with detailed explanations.

team player skills

Ask

You have often referred to Teams and Team Members.

What must I do to become an effective team member?

team member skills

Answer

A team is composed of a number of individuals working towards a common goal.

In the life of any team certain needs or problems crop up from time to time. Sometimes a need for creativity arises, issues arise that need to be resolved within the team, different interests or points of view have to be reconciled to ensure maximum gain.

effective team working skills

Effective Team Working Skills

Equipping each team member with effective team skills will ensure maximum contribution by each member to the team process and ensure that the team adds maximum value to the customer and other stakeholders … And ultimately adds value to themselves.

effective team member

Explain

We provide a list of effective team member skills below to guide you on a journey through the most important principles that effective team members should master.

An understanding of all the other skills mentioned below are essential for the effective operation of teams.

Effective team skills