How to Effectively Manage a Meeting for Results with our career planning

by Unre Visagie

Learn the skills to effectively manage a business or team meeting for greater results!

It is all about the meeting’s purpose and outcomes

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Manage business meetings with purpose and outcomes.

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How to manage a business or team meeting

  1. Plan the meeting
  2. Talk about and listen
  3. Proud of session
  4. Vision and mission
  5. Action road forward and direction
  6. Further engagement
  7. Techniques to increase value flow
how to manage a meeting

How to manage a meeting

Plan the meeting

  • Keep the time and logistics in mind. Structure the meeting and keep the process of organizing in line to achieve the desired outcome / outcomes.
  • Choose a congenial place and time for all individuals involved in the meeting.
  • Who can contribute to the meeting with the best benefit and fit for the specific scenario and goal of the meeting? If you wish to take another person with to the meeting, decide on someone that will fit and cause stacking. Stacking means there is more than one direct benefit to more than one individual or entity involved.
  • Clarify the objective: what do all those involved hope to get out the meeting? Ensure that the expectations of all those involved are shared and calibrated with one another.

How to talk about & listen during the meeting

  • Listen in a structured manner
  • Share in a structured manner

Use the Carnegie method of opening or re-starting a conversation when you get stuck during the meeting:

  • In your mind walk down the street in which the person you are conversing with lives, see the brass plate next to the front door: ask questions about where the individual lives or where they lived.
  • Now walk into the house in your mind’s eye: talk about and ask about what you see on the walls, like photographs, pictures, paintings, ornaments and so on.
  • On top of the house, there is an airplane: where has this person traveled or where do they wish to travel.
  • On top of the airplane is a hobbyhorse: what type of hobbies do they practice and what other interests do they have.
  • On top of the plane, on top of the hobbyhorse sits grandma knitting: where does his/her family come from and what are they engaged in.
  • Identify the feelings, positive or negative, driving the other individuals in the meeting.
  • Positive and negative feelings
    • We are driven by what we desire.
    • This desire is driven as much by positive feelings as it is driven by what we do not want.
    • Humans appear to be more capable of stating what they do not want than what they do want. We seem to struggle with stating our observations about these negative feelings, the things we do not want.
  • The Issue is
    • Continually ask yourself: “It will be right when?”. Use The Issue Is model to assist in creating clarity.
    • Part of sharing in a structured manner is to be able to lead the other individuals on discovering when something will be right.
    • Statements like “The real issue is…” and “When will this be right…?” is typical of this type of conversation.
  • Rapport and Reflection
    • Build rapport by using encouraging body language and activator statements.
    • Reflect and mirror the other person’s statements to ensure you understand what is being said or asked. For example if someone makes a statement like: “You must remember to complete the letter.” You would then mirror that statement ensuring you understood the other person: “You would like me to complete the letter to John as we discussed previously, would you like me to mail it as well or do you want to read it first?.” This ensures there are no misunderstandings and possible challenging situations.
    • Allow the other person to complete what they want to say. Build rapport by using statements like, “Tell me more”, “Wow really!?”, “Is it really like that?”, “They do that?” etc.
  • Open or re-start a conversation using the Carnegie model above (see the book by Dale Carnegie: Winning friends and Influencing people for more resources).
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  • There is basic “stuff” any person on earth feel comfortable talking about. This includes subjects like family, hobbies, travel, interest, art, music and many more such subjects. When a conversation comes to a place where the other person or people are low on energy, in other words they are struggling to communicate with you, use the Carnegie method to re-start the conversation. This process can also be used to start a conversation.

What are the other person/people proud of?

Make the other person feel important

  • What are the other person/people proud of in home, career, business and relations?
  • What does he/she believe in?
  • Religious statements are taboo. When treading in the realm of personal belief, leave the other person to talk, you just listen without reacting. Be aware of making controversial statements or attacking the others’ statements. Use these methods to get the most out of a meeting; do not allow emotional reactions to sabotage the purpose of the meeting.
  • Where does the other spend most of their time?
  • What is on their minds? Things, places and people they have on their minds the most. Such information can be helpful in framing a meeting. Be really interested without probing.

Structure the vision & mission during a meeting

Structure and frame the exploration of the meeting

  • Keep the identified goal in mind
  • What are the other people about?
  • Where are they going in life?
  • What do they wish to achieve?
  • What are their dreams and aspirations?
  • When engaging in a vision / mission type conversations remember and share stories where applicable. It could make for very interesting conversation. Be careful to never attack another person’s beliefs. Some examples include:
  • Gandhi was about dignity and he ended with freedom.
    • Gandhi wanted dignity for his people. He achieved freedom; do the people now have dignity?
  • Madiba was also about dignity and we now have democracy.
    • Madiba also wanted the people to have dignity in being productive. The people now have the vote. Does having the vote bring about dignity?
  • Kennedy caused the USA to believe they are a super race, which caused Vietnam.
    • Kennedy made America invincible by putting the first man on the moon. America believed they could not lose in Vietnam.
  • These are strong examples to use, but if you do not understand the purpose of a meeting, the outcome for your company, project or personally might be the same!

Action road forward and direction

Ask and answer questions like:

Where will you be?

What will you do?

For whom will you do it?

What will the result be?

  • What is the direction we want to go according to the information gathered from the meeting? What alternatives do we have? Develop alternatives using methods like “Asking questions”, “Strawmen” and Edward de Bono’s PO “.
  • Ask questions like:
    • “What else?”
    • “Together with?”
  • Strawmen:
    • One can create it and then burn it, no emotions or structure attached to it. Facilitate out of the box thinking.
    • One is able to develop new ideas without having to defend; there is nothing to defend because it is a Strawmen.
  • Edward de Bono’sPO:
    • Edward de Bono’s PO works in the same manner. One asks the question: “What is PO?” PO is nothing; it can thus be anything one wants it to be. It belongs to nobody and means nothing so PO can be anything you want it to be; again without having to defend it.
  • Orders first or missionary
    • If the project must have orders to sustain it then how does one go about getting orders?
    • If the project is missionary, it is an organization or individuals personal passion, who provides the resources?
  • Are the Seven risks of businesscovered?
    • Seven risks of business, which applies to any project as well.
    • Cover each of the risk areas with co-opted STORRGIES, in other words – obtain external resources that will cover the gaps identified in the project.

Further engagement

  • Conclude and agree who does what, where, when and why?
  • Determine if Venn diagram overlaps exist or not.
  • Venn diagrams
    • A Venn diagram gives a graphic representation of the different stakeholders involved in the possible project. There where the overlap between the areas exists is where you can test the possibility of further engagement and value-add.
  • Have clear next actions .
  • What is the time and place for what needs to happen next?
  • What other people must be involved?
  • Which resource needs to be added or identified?
  • What is the desired outcome of further engagement or of the actions decided upon in the meeting?

Techniques to increase value flow

Each technique you make yours will serve you for life.

  • Continuously add value using these techniques.
  • Grow and diversify communication skills .
  • Mature listening skills
  • Practiced questioning skills

Use and learn old techniques like “Feel Felt Found” to associate with and learn from.

About Unre Visagie
I am a master coach with 30 years of career and business coaching experience. I have built and sold many of my own multi-million dollar companies. I have always built my companies based on the principle of successful people make a successful company. I invest in people. As your coach you get 30 years of experience to help you do the work you love and earn the salary you want.

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